Much the same as having a night out for a date, I feel that it is essential to get in the correct mentality for self delight. In the event that you are on edge and awkward it is all the more testing to get in the state of mind for sex. Most importantly let’s overcome the myths.
Myths about masturbation:
1) Only those who are desperate for sex masturbate:
False, many people who are in committed relationships continue to masturbate. The truth is self pleasure compared with sexual experiences with a partner are different experiences. The need to masturbate is not completely overcome by sex, and having regular sex actually results in more masturbation for many.
2) Only Men Masturbate:
False. Culturally, women are not supposed to admit to masturbation; however it is widely accepted that women do it. It is perfectly natural for women to indulge are self pleasure, and studies have shown that women who masturbate have higher self esteem.
3) Pleasuring yourself is bad for the soul, will damage your internal organs, and can be fatal:
False. These statements are nonsense, and should be disregarded as folklore or old wives tales. Actually, masturbation has many health benefits like; lowers blood pressure, prevents prostate cancer, and helps you sleep better. Plus you become more self aware of your body, and you can’t get STD’s or pregnant from it.
So don’t feel ashamed, masturbation is good for your health.
Pleasuring yourself is all about personality. Your body was designed to enjoy different amounts of pleasure and the goal is to explore your body. Sit back and relax, let your hands explore all the regions of the body. You can experiment with tempo and pressure over the most sensitive parts. Make sure that your hands are clean and fingernails are trimmed. You can use lotions to rub over the vagina region; there are some lotions that have different sensations. Or you can try high quality sex toys such as Lelo Vibrators.
Tips and Tricks
For the women:
You can start by rubbing the nipples and move slowly down toward the southern region. If you use lotion for lubrication, use a small dab. You can rub the inner walls with fingers, luxury vibrators, natural sex, high end sex toys or other objects. The general idea is avoid pain and an infection, so cleaning any product prior to use is recommended. The main point of pleasure is the clitoris and is performed with the fingertips in a circular fashion. Sometimes you can sit back in a nice warm bubbly bath, stimulate the southern zip code, and receive a nice orgasm.
The Lelo Iris Personal Massager is a perfect gift to yourself. The massager is a great item to use after a stressful day at work or school. This product is quiet but sends powerful vibrations to the right areas. It is easily adjusted for speed and power. The Iris is available in two colors. The Lelo has two pleasure points that include several different stimulation modes to use. Go ahead and avoid the pain and strain from the other models by those other companies. The Lelo was designed to be comfortable for the hands and wrists of its user. The Iris comes in a beautiful package and includes a charger for the batteries.
Men:
To increase pleasure when masturbating, try extending foreplay and visual stimulation. Try not to just go right after your member. For example if you are watching adult movie, try and enjoy the video without touching yourself. You will probably get hard and want nothing more than to blow a load, but if you can extend this period of visual stimulation your climax will be much larger and more intense. Switching to your off hand can create a different feeling and sensation also. Remember when masturbating your imagination can be a very powerful tool, so use it.